After a deep discussion with one of my inner circle peeps it was once again brought to my awareness that I have been asking the wrong question in certain aspects of my life. The question that I had been asking for so long was….’How do I do this? How will I be able to make that happen’?
It became quite apparent that I had forgotten the more important question of ‘Why?’…’Why would that be beneficial to both myself and my family’? ‘Why would that benefit my community?’
I think in many of our lives we get bogged down and stuck in the ‘HOWS’. We wonder ‘How will I find time to do that?’ ‘How will I be able to afford that?’ and the question that trumps all ‘Hows’….is WHY?
I remember a speaker once stating that “If the ‘WHY’ is big enough the ‘HOW’ will find a way.”
If the reason (the WHY) that you take action on something is greater than the excuses….nothing can stop you.
The challenge I have for you is to stop the bullsh^tting of excuses….(which goes by a code word of ‘HOW’) and begin fueling the ‘WHY’ you started and ‘WHY’ it is so important to you. I think that when this happens, your life will begin to evolve and the excuses will seem like bumps on the road rather than mountains that seem impossible to overcome.
When you begin having the questions of ‘HOW’ scream in your mind, shut them out with clarifying, defining and demonstrating ‘WHY’ you started in the first place.
YOU DEFINE YOU.
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