Quit track, quit football, quit life....that's what he said. I didn't understand the implications at the time as I was an immature teenager, but looking back I understand the message.  If you ever quit anything in your life....it becomes that much easier to quit again.  Lesson: Never Quit.  Never Give Up. YOU DEFINE YOU. … [Read more...]

We assume the sun will rise and set. We assume that our car will start every morning. We assume people will show up at work. And we sometimes assume others know what we think. We believe they can read our mind so we go on complaining about what they did or did not do based upon assumptions. Stop assuming and have the uncomfortable discussions. YOU DEFINE YOU. … [Read more...]

A recent technology issue at my office offered some insight into life and what to do when it may not be working as well as you desire. YOU DEFINE YOU. … [Read more...]

You have so much time in the the day. Only so much time to get what needs to get done.  Do you prioritize the hour, day, your life? OR do you see where the wind will blow you and deal with problems as they come.  In this episode I take you LIVE in a time when I was behind and trying to get time back. YOU DEFINE YOU. … [Read more...]

Michael Jordan, Kobe Bryant and Dustin Behn. Three names you wouldn't put together as basketball icons. There was a time....in my mind when I could have matched up with each of them.  Unfortunately my mind didn't match my skill set and in this episode I share WHY that can hinder your success. YOU DEFINE YOU. … [Read more...]

In this episode I share an event that occurred in my life as a child while attending a local fair and showing a rabbit for 4H.  I hope you have never had an experience such as this...but if you have, I hope you learned the lesson. YOU DEFINE YOU. … [Read more...]